Chat with young married adults
This morning, the need to be held was so overwhelming, I didn't think I could bear it. I hate answering by saying "I'm fine" when really I'm not! Is it even possible once we've drifted so far apart? Things have moved on and I feel like posting again. When I last posted I mentioned how my wife had gone from no sex, to no kissing and really no... Another day of emotions buried..feelings left in said and the frustration of uncertainty. As I sit here having a one sided conversation with my husband, I'm getting very little response in return. Then this morning he offered to take me to the park where I typically... Maybe it's those things that I miss the most and am seeking out. He gets upset if I ask him about it...we're in freakin counseling and he... Someone who knows when I need some attention, when I need to offload & talk about my day. I mean absolutely none left but managed to rekindle the fire with them? Has anyone done that successfully with their spouse? I would have stayed single 4 life and only had friends. Just when you get to that stage in you life when you can take a breath, you realize you feel empty. than 2 months since I posted my first story...thanks to the people who responded. Wellllllllll yesterday he took me out on a date ...dinner and a movie still not much conversation but hey it was nice and I really felt like he was trying. We have fallen into a rut and the excitement of the early days have faded and the connection we shared seems to have disappeared. Be honest with me.• Are there some times when a disagreement needs to be postponed? We got married 1.5 years ago and the second we got back from our honeymoon all affection and intimacy stopped like a light switch. I didn't know there were so many other people in the world who are in the same situation, so reading others' stories is reassuring in that I realise I'm not alone in my aloneness. If he doesn't want sex ANYMORE he should talk to me about it and be honest! I kept looking at my husband, wondering if I should ask for a hug. ....we dont know something, isnt it better so we crave it less. know nothing about....u are asleep and I have a battle zone going on within my heart. Then I wonder why I constantly crave communication from someone else. for more, as this life I've become entrapped in feels cold and desolate, so very lonely to me. – What goals would you like us to accomplish in our marriage in the next year? – If you could live in any other time period, past or future, what period would you choose? • What movie or television program have you seen in the last year that you wish all your friends could see?– If someone gave you enough money to start a business of your own, what kind of business would you start?They are meant to help you to better understand and know each other.If the conversation starts to go in a negative direction, stop and start again.
We allow everyday living to separate and distance us instead.Everyone loves her and she truly is a great person and a terrific mother. Oh sure we talk and take care of kids etc but you can't have any deep meaningful conversation when someone's attention is divided if not elsewhere.